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About this Gay dude

Discussion in 'The NF Café' started by lekki, Dec 5, 2005.

  1. lekki Specialist

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    So my buddy and I were out drinking last weekend when some dude came and stood next to us and started up a conversation.


    We were open to this idea because frankly, it was a horror show at the bar that night, nada-mas in terms of suitable ladies to hit on as far as the I could make out. Anyway...

    First impression of the guy was he talked funny for a man his age.

    But I just thought it was the large amount of JD in my system.
    This was further dispelled when I found out he wa a fan of football, the Atlanta Falcons at that.

    I immediately went into hater mode cursing out Micheal Vick for his team beating the Philadelphia Eagles (the team I support) but strangely he seemed to know nothing about this...wierd.

    We then welcomed him to the Middle East and took him through the dos and don'ts in a Muslim country as an ex-pat.

    He then asked if he could smoke to which we said good idea.

    We all busted out our respective cigarettes, my buddy and I, marlboro reds and marlboro lights respectively. Our new friend? Fantasia by Nat Sherman.

    Now I love Nat Sherman black and golds as I think they're the best cigarettes in the world. For this reason, I asked him if I could have one of his fantasias and began to puff away on my little pink cigarette.

    I then realized that my cigarette was pink and the cigarette my buddy had hesistantly accepted was a strange shade of blue.

    Upon further examination, the cigarettes were arranged like a little rainbow in a fancy box.

    Screw it I thought, guy likes to stand out, and he's proud to be who he was, a gay pilot(he was a pilot) who was living his dream by coming to the middle east with his partner to live out their dream lives.
    (Yeah, he even had a partner that was flying out to come be with him from Atlanta)

    Long story short, at the end of the night, he finally came out to us and told us he was gay.

    By this point, you'd have to be retarded to not have known about it. So I said "I know..." And we had an uncomfortable silence but we got through it and carried on drinking and having a good time.

    All of a sudden, the guy's like "What do you mean you know?"

    Then he gets all pissy and says he has to go.:blink

    Shouldn't that asshole be greatful that we gave him the time of day as he was completely alone in a new country and we spent a considerable amount of our night telling him about the place?
    Or is it ok to throw a hissy fit as a complete stranger?

    Did I actually do something wrong?
    Should I even care?

    Did you actually read through all of this?:blink
     
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  2. ThiefKing Your Almighty God

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    Yes, yes, no.

    No, no.

    Yes.


    :oh
     
  3. Kyuubi Naruto Hounds of Justice

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    Awesome, lekki's back!!!! :thumbs

    I thought the story was funny and no you didnt do anything wrong. I would have said the same thing. The gay guy probably thought you were trying to make fun of him or something or trying to hide your true feelings to not be rude. However idk why he just got pissed and left. Just say whats on your mind. He should have thanked you guys but I guess he couldnt do it.

    No you shouldnt care at all. Hes gone and its over and its his fault that he left. I mean what did you do wrong? Nothing at all.

    Yeah I read through it. I knew it would turn out to be hilarious and I was right.
     
  4. CrazyMoronX Old Man

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    He was gay! :mad

    Wait that usually works as a deragatory term to a heterosexual male, but I guess it doesn't apply here.

    Anyway, obviously he has issues. I wouldn't let it bother you, he was in the wrong obviously.

    My only advice is, if you see him again, nod in his direction, look at your friend and pretend to say something in his ear, and then laugh hysterically.

    The man will most likely commit suicide.
     
  5. Shogun <marquee><font color='dark blue'>Standing Still</f

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    Long answer yes with an if, long answer no with a but
     
  6. Ulquiorra Schiffer Tsugi no mai: Hakuren

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    I really don't know how all of that works or even what kind of advice to give you. I have a couple gay friends and I've found that they are quite comparable to a woman in PMS mode...They can be really cool or pissy about every little thing. It's hard to understand what they're thinking or what kind of reactions you're going to get by saying certain things. My friends and I accept our gay friends and we try not to act any differently around them. I don't think you were in the wrong and I think it's completely rude to blow up on a total stranger that has just spent X amount of hours explaining to you about the culture and the place you're living in. (By the way...Where are you at?) I'd be ashamed of myself if I did that to someone that was being helpful. Oh well, like I said. That's my opinion and I stick by that, but to each his own. Ya know?


    BTW: Nothing in this post was meant to be offensive to anyone....Just thought I'd throw that out there before I get neg repped for "Sexism" or "Homophobia"
     
  7. Dynomiteguy Angel of Death

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    What he said :oh
     
  8. lekki Specialist

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    Dynomite, you should've been there.
    Being blind would not have been an excuse to not figure out he was gay.
     
  9. Dynomiteguy Angel of Death

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    I edited my post after thinking it over better. >_>
     
  10. rimpelcut You know it, I know it.

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    he was probable drunk and old psychological problems came back causing him to act BZzzzz
     
  11. Tanthalos Half Elven

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    Some people don't believe that they are "obvious" and when they find out they ahve been they never take it well. It has nothing to do with you guys just forget about it.
     
  12. Procyon Loveless

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    When you said "I know" he probably thought that you didn't really know, but you said that to spite him, or because you had something against him. It was just a misinterpretation. I'm sorry. :oh That' must've been werid. XD
     
  13. ShgnLW New Member

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    I like gays, they are friendly and a perfect babysitter for your girlfriend.

    I'm from the Netherlands, maybe that;s why, but okay...

    Gays are very nice, and friendly, I like them, until they like me... and then I say... f0ck u...
     
  14. Dr.Douchebag Terry Wrist

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    Did I actually do something wrong?no
    Should I even care?no

    Did you actually read through all of this? yes :scry
     
  15. legan Banned

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    Perfect babysitter for your girlfirend.


    Ummm please tell me you didn't mean it in that way or should I be worried?
     
  16. Hef Night Work

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    It could've been that he thought that you thought he looked gay, sissy or feminine or something and offended his masculinity by saying "Yeah I know you're gay. :huh" That wouldn't really offend me, but there are all kinds of people. :woo

    And btw, this really reminds me of NI's thread about picking up models and after they had driven all around the city the girls didn't even say thanks. XD
     
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    Those gays...
     
  18. Sniper Not a crook

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    I just have to say this. HAHAHAHA!!! Never say "I know" cuz people want to look like an average person. They dont need u to say "Hey ya know what pall...ure sorta actin gay...so i sorta knew u were gay"

    Trust me. They wanna look like you.
     
  19. Chamcham Trigger 光翼型近接支援残酷戦闘機“エヴァッカニア・ドゥーム

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    With pink ciggs? I don't get it. People usually act out a part because they want the other person to know. I could understand if he tried to act like a fony and seem like a person other than himself, but if the person he was being around Lekki was how he really is, then I don't see how it was hard to tell. His cigs were rainbow colored. I don't know what other clue you need. Another thing is that why would he take offense to it? He should be fine with who he is (no one said he was being less masculine by being gay, they could have been clued in by anything....especially the cigs). This kinda reminds me of that Dave Chappelle act where people got angry at the confusion by the clothes that the wore.
     
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    Pink cigs are a threat to a man's masculinity.

    Anyways, cigs are bad.
     
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    that guy should have been grateful,and people can tell about other people by how they act that gay guy is retarted
     
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    :laugh
    Well being gay doesn't mess with masculinity, but having rainbow cigs is usually (but not always) a sign. Not that people should be looking for signs, but that wasn't the purpose of this thread was it....I was going somewhere with this, but I don't know if I've already went there or just forgot where I was going :oh
     
  23. RAGING BONER Sexual Tyrannosaurus

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    well, i have a short attention span so i stopped at about the third line or so...

    i got the impression from what i read that because there were no women that night to pick up on, you decided to accept the sexual overtures of a clearly homosexual male, using ofcourse the excuse that you were too drunk to notice that said male was indeed a fudge packer. and then feeling guilty that you gave into your latent homo sexual tendencies you come online, obviously because your too scared to talk to someone face to face, in order to seek either approval or comfort for what you realize now was a brash decision...am i getting warmer here?
     
  24. Quoll loungin'

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    Sounds about right to me. He probably thought he threw you off by talking about football.
     
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    Wtf, lol lekki just be honest.. and you wore honest. Not your fault, and you did right.
     
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    Pink Cigarettes? Atleast he's killing himself in style.

    Maybe he was angry because he thought he was straight acting and you made him feel like he failed at that. Do you speak to him anymore?
     
  27. RodMack Spiral Arrow

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    another display of how people can be stupid. the guy should be thankful that you and your friend told him about the place.
     
  28. lekki Specialist

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    I don't know how else to put this.
    It's like Dave Chappelle hanging out with you all night and right before he gets ready to leave, says "Oh by the way, I'm black!"

    It was a 'no shit!' moment :thumbs
     
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    heheh funny story :amuse
    i wish stuff like that happent to me only with a lesbian orso >_> :D
    good to see you again lekki man :glomp
    missed youre precense here
     
  30. lekki Specialist

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    In my lesbian story, the chick told me my tongue wasn't long enough :(
     
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