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Advice Do you Need some Relationship Advice?

Discussion in 'Konoha Country Club' started by baconbits, Nov 4, 2014.

  1. DemonDragonJ

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    She said that it was a Lia Sophia brand ring, and I have searched for that name, but have found only meager results; it seems that that brand is no longer in business, so their items are now rarities.

    The ring has three gems in different shades of blue and is composed of sterling silver, but Lady J's favorite color is green and her birthstone is diamond, hence why I am using that gem and emerald as two of the three gems for the engagement ring that I plan to have made, with the third gem being a ruby, as that is my birthstone.

    I disagree with that, but may I please quote this post in my signature?

    @stormrage, earlier in my relationship, I would not have been confident about addressing such a subject with Lady J, but now, I actually believe that it may be possible to ask her about it and not ruin the relationship that she and I have, so I shall need to find a time that is appropriate for asking that, ideally when she and I are alone and not in danger of being interrupted.
     
  2. A. Waltz

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    you guys im extremely bored somebody start some shit
     
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  3. Mider T

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    You gotta unignore DDJ lol
     
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    Sure.
     
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    That's awesome that you've become more confident, you now just need to learn to be more direct. My opinion, asking her to have sex with you won't ruin the relationship. In fact I'd wager that after that question you'd have a better understanding of where you guys are in the relationship. She either says yes or she says no and you would then be able to move forward accordingly.

    Best of luck bud, I hope that being more direct pays off.
     
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    Really? Because I found two different websites with Lia Sophia rings in under thirty seconds on Google. It was a direct sales company that has now closed, but Lia Sophia items can still be found in various places online.
    It might not actually be sterling silver, from what I'm reading about the brand, depending on if the complaints I saw were accurate. But it is a start, yes. Out of her other jewellery, is it predominantly gold-based or silver-based? If she almost never wears gold-tone jewellery, you could consider something like white gold, so that it doesn't clash with the things she prefers.
     
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    everyone does but it's not very entertaining, and it's usually done in the privacy of bathrooms.
     
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    It's a shame Jim is asexual because his dad jokes are on point.
     
  9. Jim

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    says who?
     
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    :tchpepe
     
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    :skully
     
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    I communicated further with my friend who moved to Rhode Island, and learned that he and his father moved there (his parents are divorced; he lives with his father and his sister used to live with their mother until she got married) because his father got a job in that state, they moved at the end of October and beginning of November, and he did not mention it because of how busy he was with the process of moving, so I am no longer upset at having not known about that.

    Obviously, I am hoping that she does desire to engage in sexual activity with me, but, in the chance that she does not, what can I do? Would attempting to convince her to do it be a questionable choice of action?

    I have not asked about the metal from which the ring is composed, but it is silver in color, and I have not seen her wear much gold-colored jewelry, so I agree that white gold would be a good choice for an engagement ring for her.

    May I please quote this post in my signature, as well?
     
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    If you want to get a further idea of what she likes you could get some jewellery catalogues and see what necklaces and/or earrings she finds nice? Checking with her would be a reasonable thing to do if you wanted to choose a normal event gift for her, like Christmas or birthdays. That way you can find out her tastes without bringing rings into it, and get some gift ideas so you can make a venture into giving her jewellery? You'll probably be less nervous about the idea of giving her a ring if it's not the first jewellery gift you've given her.
     
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    No
     
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    serious: how do I show women that I'm being serious with them and want to move forward? every time the relationship cuts short cause they think I want to stay in the status que.
     
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    Uh...@Yamato why did you delete your post?
     
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    I obviously want to do that, but I need to decide how to address that subject: Should I directly ask "will you have sex with me?" or "would you like to have sex with me?", or are those too direct? Should I ask her a question that is less direct?

    I have given her several pieces of jewelry, already, including a necklace (with a pendant made of green beach glass), a bracelet, and earrings, but no finger rings, yet; I also got her a purse/handbag from a medieval renaissance faire and had my mother knit her a woolen sweater (I tried to find green yarn for it, but was not able to find a shade that I found to be satisfactory, so I had my mother make it from pink yarn, instead, as that is Lady J's second favorite color). I also have given her gift cards to various stores, as well, so, at this point, I am no stranger to giving her gifts.

    Why not?
     
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    this thread sucks :scust
     
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    Leave them a draw in your room for their shit/buy them a toothbrush for your place. They love small, dumb gestures like that.
     
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    that wont get them to leave tho
     
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    Like I said before, if you want to quote people just do it don't ask. Nothing anybody can do about it.
     
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    :mikebatman You wanna show her you're serious while kickin em to the curb after you done? State that it's for spontaneous overnight stays or whatever, not rent-free accommodation.
     
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    I meant serious as in moving forward in the relationship and probably talk about the future :mikebatman
     
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    Why are you saying that? Also, may I please quote this post in my signature?

    I ask for permission because, unlike some users, here, I believe in being polite, which seems to be a characteristic that is in short supply, recently.
     
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    yes
     
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    Thank you very much.
     
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