hey, im posting this in here as its probably were the most intelligent people hang (bar myself ) so compliments to you all. Truth is, im worried and stuck I found out that my girlfriend self harms when she gets angry, and she is always angry. She cuts her wrists with razor blades and knives and other assorted objects. thing is, she hates herself for doing it, because she thinks she is wrong, and she hates the scars and stuff. its not something i understand or can relate to so i really dont know what to do to help her, talking about it doesnt really work because she hates herself, and ive tried telling her how beautiful she is but she doesnt beleive me. ive honestly considered trying it myself just so i can understand that little bit better, but truth is, im scared shitless, and im scared that she is going to seriously hurt herself. any ideas/comments would be greatly appreciated.