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Why is it so hard to get into Erotic Roleplaying!?!

Discussion in 'Roleplaying Forum' started by StarlightAshley, Mar 17, 2019.

  1. StarlightAshley Banned

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    I'm asking if this is just a me problem or a problem everyone experinces.

    I try to roleplay with strangers but they just ignore me. :cry:cry

    I've tried all sorts of approaches. Saying Hi first, Saying Hi and my idea of what to role play, starting the conversation with a Starter rp. No one responds to me. What should I do? I just want to make friends!! :sniff:sniff
     
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  2. Nep Nep Bedpost-Kun

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    Probably cause it weirds most people out.

    I remember when I was 17 one ex of mine used to make me use Chatango to chat with her.

    And random peeps would just come up and start cybering and it was like ahahhh... no.

    If you want to make friends... be normal first. Then bring up that you wanna try ERP.
     
  3. StarlightAshley Banned

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    But that's the problem, i'm not a weirdo about it! I'm socially calibrated enough to know not to try to randomly message someone who doesn't RP with an RP. To make friends on a chat website I say "Hi, I'm Ashley! Smiley face" then I mention something I noticed about them that I have in common, tell them my opinion about it, then ask them about theirs! :):)

    But..i'm trying to expand my horizons and get into rping with people or in this case erping, and the entire premise is that you message people -to- rp with them. They have profiles with all the details of their characters and what they're looking for and stuff and if your characters are compatible you can message them and rp together..its almost like a dating site for rp characters. :X3:X3

    So..in a nutshell its like. Random Weeb: "Looking for someone to do a fantasy rp with, likes: submissive happy go lucky bunnygirls!" and I think "O.O I have a submissive happy-go-lucky bunny girl character!" So then I direct message them with like "( Hi ^^ I think our characters would fit together want to Rp?! I was thinking it could start like x. What do you think?)" and then...No response. Nothing. Totally ghosted. :sweatdrop:sweatdrop

    So you might think oh well..theirs more fish in the sea right? oh look 3 other people who want submissive happy bunnygirls!! I'll message everyone I want to rp with..and atleast some of them will respond to me right?..no? Not even one? Ok well..that's ok..now I feel like a totally rejected unwanted piece of garbage, no big deal!!! :scry:scry
     
  4. EvilMoogle Well-Known Member Supporting Staff

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    I don't care if you guys want to chat about this topic here, but I do want to make a quick reminder that X-rated RP stuff should be best left to either PMs or 18+ sections of the forum.
     
  5. StarlightAshley Banned

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    But...No one's said anything X rated? :oh:oh

    Besides, the erotic part isn't even what's relevant! It's the fact that I'm being shunned by people on that erp community and I don't know why. I'm feeling pathetic..I can't take rejection...:sickhurr:sickhurr!!

    At least not like this! If they explained their fickle problems with me first, I'd be totally OK with it! Like "I don't like the rp idea you had" or "You made a typo so I'm going to assume your illiterate and ignore you" or "you're acting too childish, are you really over 18?" Whatever their impression is, I don't care, as long as I have something to learn from. But if people totally ignore you that's the worst kind of rejection possible. It's more anxiety provoking than anything!! :cry:cry
     
  6. Nep Nep Bedpost-Kun

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    Lol. Girl you really need a bit more backbone. Life's too short to spend it worrying about others opinions.

    Maybe join an erping discord instead. At least the process of rejection will go quicker there so you can find someone who wants to faster.
     
  7. Toal Well-Known Member

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    Outright Smut is boring, side attraction attention bait fine but it sucks as a main attraction

    If you aren't rping and doing a plot whats the point?
     
  8. StarlightAshley Banned

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    :hearts:hearts I don't know, I've never tried yet. I'm not very experienced in text rping but, obviously you don't start off with smut, their needs to be build up! The progression to sex should subtle, it should be hinted at, foreshadowed, teased, and the build up for it should be drawn out for as long as it can be. The tension should be tottaly unbearable! The length of time it takes to get to actually having a sexual encounter should be comparable to how long it takes a shounen protagonist to reach their goal. You know it's going to happen in the end, but the meat of the story is how it gets there...

    ..then maybe it ends up being really bad for both of us and it was all that build up for an unsatisfying ending.

    Of course this is all in my head because all of these erpers are totally ghosting me so I really have no idea!! :cry:cry
     
  9. Mider T Busting in and out of guts

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    Have you tried ChatRoulette?:)
     
  10. StarlightAshley Banned

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    Just because I want to try erping doesn't mean I'm a degenrate. That's not rping at all. :notrust:notrust
     
  11. Mider T Busting in and out of guts

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    It's a good place to practice. Omegle too:hurr
     
  12. StarlightAshley Banned

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    :noworry:noworry The reason I want to try this is actually the exact opposite of that. RPing is a good way to practice. I'm scared of the idea of having to have sex so I want to pretend through rp first to help acclimate myself and get over my fears about it! :flirtyhurr:flirtyhurr

    The problem is, it's turning out people on these sites seem to be choosey about who they'll rp with.. :sweatdrop:sweatdrop I can't figure out what to message people to make them respond.
     
  13. Mider T Busting in and out of guts

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    Why?
     
  14. StarlightAshley Banned

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    Why what? Why do I have fears? Because i'm human? :oh:oh
     
  15. Mider T Busting in and out of guts

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    That's not a normal fear. Also I meant why do you have to have sex?
     
  16. StarlightAshley Banned

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    What is this 20 questions? Can I please just have some advice :):)
     
  17. Sir Lancelot Well-Known Member

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    Why tf you wanna play erp ?
     
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    Well...I know their is a big stigma around erping. How come? Is it wierd!? :sniff:sniff
     
  19. Sir Lancelot Well-Known Member

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    I dunno i never played it. It weirds me out if you want to play sexually roleplay whom you never met.

    I dont recommend it . However i know there are erp based sites and most of them do it if they are loner in life.

    I am not against people playing this but i think normal people would tend to avoid these things.
     
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    This is like having sex with a prostitute with no protection.

    Sorry, I always go in with protection unless they are friends. In which case they get the raw treatment.
     
  21. Unlosing Ranger Praise be to he

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    Running an rp about war romance and giant robots





    My rp im in is right here also got a discord for it if interested
     
  22. Nep Nep Bedpost-Kun

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    You don't use lube for your friends? Well that's just rude. :catippy
     
  23. Sir Lancelot Well-Known Member

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    Wtf haha
     
  24. Kokonoe I am whatever you say I am

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    I don't have difficulties finding people to ERP with. My advice is uh...look for horny people. :p
     
  25. RemChu † We're on the borderline †

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    Sounds like that game "Second life" is something you would be into it? Check that out. :tiredpepe @StarlightAshley You can live out whatever fantasy in that "game."

    I've never used it, so I can't offer advice on how to go about it, sorry.
     
  26. Torpedo Titz Degenerate Daimyo

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    I usually ERP and then ghost at least one person every few days

    You just cast your net and reel them in
     
  27. Uchiha Ojii-San <img src="https://i.imgur.com/xwQD7oH.gif"/>

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    I've never actually done it alot. But, I know a girl I roleplayed with who I been roleplaying with for awhile (who found me attractive as it is) smutted with me in character cause well..it was going somewhere..and it ended up arousing her so much she got very personal with me on facebook and through other means.

    So, moral of the story. Let it organically happen I guess. Or find a place that does that sorta thing. It kinda weirds me out that strangers do that shit randomally. Atleast when I broke my taboo, it had story reason and it was with someone I KNOW who is actually female, what she looks like and we are friends. So, it wasn't weird to me. Plus, yes I would bone.
     
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